“Too many secrets” – Lady heartbroken after going through her boyfriend’s phone, shares sad experience
In a poignant TikTok video that has since gone viral, a young lady was captured in tears after secretly going through her boyfriend’s phone.
The video, shared by the user with the handle @RelationshipDilemmas, features a heartbroken young lady expressing her distress after discovering something unsettling on her partner’s phone.
Her raw and emotional response prompted her to offer advice to other young women, cautioning them against going through their partner’s phones when they find a good man.
The video has ignited a firestorm of discussion online, with thousands of users sharing their thoughts on the matter.
The central issue revolves around whether going through a partner’s phone constitutes a breach of trust or a necessary means of gaining insight into a partner’s fidelity and intentions.
Netizens Reactions…
@ble_ssing_sunday reacted; “Checking your partner’s phone is necessary sometimes, so you know ur place in his life! It’s better to cry now than to cry later.”
@richard_hillss said; “He ain’t a good man if you’ll cry when u go through his phone.”
@sister._of._five said; “A lot of people actually prefer to live in their delusions than face reality. But whether you like it or not, reality will come upon you. So please, check the phone, it’s better to cry now than cry later.”
@lukasporo said; “Checking ur partner’s phone as a lady is okay sometimes so u know how much he values u make u no just dey follow mouth.”
@crazysocket reacted; “I go check am kpaaaa, that thing wey wan happen make e happen.”
@alakeoge said; “Good man dey make you cry after checking his phone. You obviously need your brain checked.”
@pharm_todun reacted; “As long as I don’t check yours. Please stay away from mine. Not everything is about cheating. Some of us have confidential information, messages and images of patients infected geniatal parts on the phone. You can’t just jeopardize the integrity of my career because we are dating.”
@saraiii said; “Too many secrets in their phones. It’s very painful not to trust a partner.”
@iam_starkydo said; “Privacy is privacy you being a partner doesn’t give you chance to go through my phone I will never do that shiit to you either. It might not even be my secret on the phone. Might be a friend or relative secret which anyone mustn’t see let’s be honest no be everything partner must know. I’m not saying you shouldn’t have access to my phone but you see going through my conversation with other people it’s a no for me I can’t take that shiit and I will never do that to you. If you feel insecure leave.”
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