Man gives shocking reason on how he ended up a virgin at 33

A 33-year-old man opens up on the struggle of finding genuine love and how his quest for a pure partner left him a virgin for all his life.

Expressing his concerns on the Reddit platform, he revealed that he made a conscious decision to remain a virgin, emphasizing his desire to be with a woman he genuinely loves rather than engaging in casual hookups.

Despite receiving advances from friends, he stated that he wasn’t interested, only for time to pass by quickly and one day woke up a 33-year-old virgin.

His post resonated with many men, some as old as 50, who shared similar stories before finally finding the right partner.

In his words;

“I’m a 33 year old male and have never had sex. I’ve had the opportunity come up a few times but it was either a FWB kind of deal or a open marriage relationship, each time I declined. I guess I want my first time to be with someone I love and for it to be special. I’ve tried dating but it never really worked out so I stopped then time just got away from me.”

Reactions trailing single 33 year old man

SuddenAnxieties784 said: “Your story and your thought process is exactly the same as mine. I also want the first time to be meaningful, so I never really looked for any casual stuff and only tried to look for something meaningful, but to no avail. But I must say, with each passing day my urge for some physical intimacy is increasing, be it in any form (even casual), because the loneliness is killing me man.”

Monroegoodwin477 said: “Trust me at this your age don’t tell a woman you are still chaste. Maybe when you find someone you love…women love men that have experience about something and more mature about having lust and sex.”

Imaginary_101 said: “You shouldn’t care what people think. Also your value doesn’t come from sex, you simply have vaule dude. We live in a misandty society that hates men.”

Keldrath said: “Unless you’re with a girl from church or something who’s super traditional and wants to wait for marriage too and is looking for that specifically, yeah unfortunately it is and it’s best to just never mention it.”