“I am not you and will never be you” — Lady clashes with father over advise against exposing body online

A young Nigerian lady clashes with her father in a heated Whatsapp chat after being advised to live a Godly lifestyle and stop revealing her body online.

A Twitter user had taken to the micro-blogging platform to ask other users to share what conversations with their parents look like.

“Quote this with a conversation with your parent,” the user quizzed.

@_hydonni whose name is Udochukwu replied to the tweet with snapshots of her WhatsApp conversation with her father. In the chat, Udo’s dad tried to reach his daughter about her lifestyle on social media.

“Udochukwu, where will you be if you die now? Heaven or hell? Remember no one knows when death will come,” he wrote.

He, further shared spiritual audios to his daughter to guide her path to righteousness but when his approach didn’t work, he flared up.

Udo’s father in the chat said, “Udochukwu stop these madness and foolish posts. they will take you no where good.

“Everything that is of great value is covered and not easily accessible. Don’t you think your body is valuable? Stop embarrassing us with your life choices. God love you and we love you too.”

The young lady, however, wasn’t having it as she blamed her parents for not asking about her mental health, and well-being other than feeding off her downsides.

“You said that you are surprised over my reply. I really cannot deal with this right now. Whether you like it or not, I do not think my value is tied to whether I wear cloth or not.

“You pile on the condemnation and it’s tiring. Have you ever asked about my mental health? How I am coping? It’s always nitpicking and fault-finding and I really can’t deal. I am not you, I will never be you,” she wrote in response to her father.