Drama as woman seeks second wife for her husband, shares reasons

A Nigerian woman, identified as Buithat Hudu Muhammad Lawal, has sparked reactions after seeking a second wife for her husband.

In a recent Facebook post, the woman shared the reasons behind her decision to take a second wife for her husband.

According to her, she doesn’t oppose polygamy, but rather criticizes how men often approach it, citing lack of fairness and wisdom.

Furthermore, she stated that if her husband decides to practice polygamy, she would raise no objections, citing prior awarenesses.

Additionally, she revealed that the qualities her co-wife must posses wisdom, love, kindness, and good character.

Read Her Post Below…

 Yesterday, I made a post about wanting a co-wife. Someone to join me in this journey of life with my husband. I noticed a lot of people thought I wasn’t serious, maybe even joked about it. But deep down, I meant every word.

I’ve always admired polygamy. It’s never been an issue for me. What I do take issue with is how many of our men go about it, lacking fairness and wisdom.

Growth changes a person. As I’ve grown, so have my thoughts. I’ve always told my husband, if he wants to take another wife, I support it.

No, I’m not looking for a jealous or manipulative co-wife. I want someone kind, wise, filled with love, and grounded in good character.I  want the freedom to travel for work knowing my children are safe and cared for.

I have a deep vision of what polygamy can be, but the real questions are: Can my husband be truly just? And can the new wife be spiritually grounded?.Life really isn’t meant to be this hard.

I just needed to share my thoughts on polygamy and what it means to me.✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️

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