“We married as virgins” – 37-yr-old lady finds out after 6 years of marriage that her husband is infertile

A Nigerian lady has found herself in an intricate dilemma as she contemplates divorcing her husband after finding out that he is infertile, 6 years after they both got married as virgins.

The story was related by a Twitter user, @ruleyourspace, who noted that the embattled lady is her cousin.

According to the account, 6 years after the couple got married, they have been unable to have any kid of their own and when they went to the hospital to run test, they found the problem.

It was revealed that the man is infertile and because of that, he cannot get her pregnant.

The lady expressed her desire to have kids of her own, and she is now considering divorcing the man.

The post reads …

“I married as a virgin to a virgin. 6 yrs after, childless & several fertility tests showed hubby is infertile. He has low sperm count. He trusts God for a miracle. I want him to get treated. I am 37 & want my own children. We are both church workers. Can l get a divorce?

This is my cousin’s experience. She truly wants the marriage to work but her husband does not want her to mention treatments or hospital. She recently met a man who is a single father with one child that says he wants to marry her. She is conflicted & wants my advice. Tough!

We talked. He was like ‘babes, I have served God all my life. Why will this be happening to me?’ Me: I dont’t know but remember Abraham & Sarah? Remember Job? Sometimes, God lets some trials test us. She is worried about her biological clock while he feels any action doubts God. We learn every day.”

See post …

I married as a virgin to a virgin. 6 yrs after, childless & several fertility tests showed hubby is infertile. He has low sperm count. He trusts God for a miracle. I want him to get treated. I am 37 & want my own children. We are both church workers.

Can l get a divorce?

— Reign O. (@ruleyourspace) October 29, 2023