“How I lost girlfriend who used to shower me with credit alerts” – Nigerian man narrates

A young Nigerian man, identified as @_BobMfonmma, has shared a touching tribute to his late girlfriend, recounting their 4-month relationship filled with love, care, and monetary gifts in the form of credit alerts, creating unforgettable memories along the way.

The young woman, whose identity was not disclosed, was the daughter of a prominent football club owner in Nigeria, and her passing has left a profound impact on her boyfriend’s life.

@_BobMfonmma poured his heart out on Twitter, reflecting on the profound connection he shared with his girlfriend before her untimely demise.

He painted a vivid picture of their relationship, highlighting her generous and nurturing nature.

The young woman apparently handled all financial responsibilities during their time together, ensuring he never lacked anything.

She showered him with gifts, both material and emotional, and her support extended to his professional endeavors, even going as far as helping him curate his outfits and offering valuable critiques.

The young man expressed his deep appreciation for her unwavering care and love. He recalled moments of warmth and kindness, such as her surprising him with a collection of custom-made tees from her family’s textile company.

He mentioned that she seamlessly integrated into his life, showing her presence in even the smallest details. However, their journey together took an unexpected turn when a minor disagreement led to a two-week silence.

@_BobMfonmma described the heart-wrenching moment when he reached out to her, only to receive a message from her brother, informing him of her passing.

In his words;

“I was once in a 4 months relationship. She’s a rich kid, her dad owns a top football club here in Nigeria. Babe literally sorted everything I ever thought without even asking. She was asked me to send my measurements, babe sent me 7 new tees she made from their textile company.

A’time I’m on my show, she made sure she watched, supported and gave her criticism if needed. She planned my every outfit going out. Made a to do list for me most times(me wey sabi Jaga Jaga sometimes). Like she was literally in my life. To a point I refused telling her if I had any issue cos next thing na alert and I felt bad cos I couldn’t do even half of what she did. Had to learn gifting by all means and she appreciated everything I gave her.

It was all rosy till she ghosted me, I didn’t hear from her for 2 weeks. Cos we had a little fight… I tried reaching out but she wasn’t responding. Next thing is her brother’s message..

“We lost (name withheld)”. I’ve never lost anyone so close before. For the first time in March 2023, hot tears dropped on my cheeks. RIP Favourite Comrade 🕊️

She played a key role in my life and I learnt alot from that relationship… I sometimes feel her in the bathroom when cold showers pour down my head. Whenever I wear her gift out, I smile cos she made sure I looked good throughout our time together. Love exist 💘.”

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