“Is this a green light, will I get to hit?” – 29 years old man seeks advice as widow with 5 kids calls him sweet names

The statement from an individual expressing interest in pursuing a relationship with an older woman, who is a widow and a mother of five children, has garnered attention.

The unidentified man disclosed that he is currently engaged in conversations with a widow who has five children.

He mentioned that their conversations are pleasant, and she addresses him using affectionate terms.

His statement “I’m currently toasting a widow with five kids. We go to the same church, and she’s in the same fellowship as my mom. I attend choir with her second daughter.”

“Whenever we make calls, she excuses herself around people and does a baby voice. Other people call her “mommy###,” but I call her by her first name.”

“She calls me with sweet names, replies to my messages and missed calls. Whenever I say something romantic, she will say, “you this boy” and blush.”

“Last month, she asked me what type of relationship I want with her. She sees me as a brother, and I don’t even know her age. Whenever we are making calls, if my airtime runs out, she always calls back immediately.”

“The questions I want to ask are: Is this a green light? Or is she messing with me? Will I get to hit? (no vex) What should I watch out for?Thanks, man. Your input is very needed. I am 29 in case you will ask.”

See some reactions below:

Diskson: “You’re toasting an elderly widow with 5 kids Of course, it is green light. She is lonely and you’ve piqued her interest.”

Buff: “You are 29 with all the life ahead of you and you are making such a terrible decision of courting a widow, as old as your mum with 5 kids?Not even one but 5. Clearly, it shows you have no female guidance in your life. Where is your mum? E reach to ask.”

Sabi: “What I dont want to see is another anonymous message saying you’ve fallen in love. There is no room in this story for better ending. Collect your 10% as Caesar. And no use love enter that woman, you go quick cast.”

Ugonnaya: “29 still small na, Are you sure you will get married, have your own kids in future? Because from your explanation it seems you are still enjoying mummy thank you daily. Anyway good luck with your new knacking job.”

Adeolu: “I’m sure you don’t love that woman, you just want to feel the “older women” vibe. Mr. Traffic light.” 

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