“I prefer being called fat, plus-sized is not empowering” — Monalisa Stephen
Although being called fat is disliked by some individuals, notable actress and social media influencer, Monalisa Stephen affirmed that she doesn’t have an issue being called that.
She made this known during an interview with Saturday Beats where she expressed her preference for being referred to as fat.
The content creator who recently revealed she dated two men simultaneously also addressed her talent and handling social media trolls.
Monalisa Stephen on why she prefers being called fat than plus-sized
“I prefer being called fat because that is what I am. Some people find the term ‘fat’ offensive, so they tend to use ‘plus-sized’, ‘fluffy’, or ‘chubby’. But for me, it is what it is; I am fat.
I will expect people to know that I am not angry when I am called fat. Being called plus-sized is not empowering for me. I feel people should be able to live in reality; to know if they are really fat.
If they don’t like the way they are, they should do something about it, instead of getting angry at being called fat. There is nothing wrong with being fat and accepting one’s body.”
Talent got me this, not sex appeal
“I don’t think so. I have always worked based on my talent. I am into content creation because I am talented; not because I have a sexy body. I am a talented content creator.”
Monalisa Stephen on how she handles being trolled
“Before now, it used to get to me because I always wondered why someone would pick up their phone and drop a hate comment on someone’s post they don’t even know.
Before, I used to try to educate them. But, I have found out that there are some people that just don’t like one and that’s okay. One is not jollof rice that must be enjoyed by everybody. When I see such comments, I ignore them or use the ‘block’ button. There is nothing to prove. I just ignore or use the block button.”