‘Boyfriend is very unnecessary if you’re not getting married soon’ – Nigerian lady, says
A Twitter user with the handle @ereluchocolate has gotten some Nigerians talking on the micro-blogging site after she said it is unnecessary to have a boyfriend when one is not getting married soon.
In her words:
“Boyfriend is very unnecessary if you’re not getting married soon and dating is an extremely unnecessary sport that no one should be pressured into.”
See her tweet below:
Boyfriend is very unnecessary if you're not getting married soon and dating is an extreme unnecessary sport that no one should be pressured into https://t.co/hmubY6xS2I
— OLUWAFIKEMIKEWA (@EreluChocolate) June 9, 2019
Some Nigerians while reacting to the comments have expressed divergent views.
See below;
Monotony and boredom lol
Its not totally unnecessary tho
If y'all know what you really want
It teaches you a lot.. It might be unnecessary but it is imperative
Just my opinion anyway— Paul | Unpaulished Media (@MisterAlasiri) June 9, 2019
My exact thought too. I feel you shouldn't commit until you're ready for marriage. Monotony and boredom.
— tequila. (@tobiojenike) June 9, 2019
Its just her opinion
I disagree on this shaaa
For me oh relationships mean alot more— Onye ọma Emeka 🙂 (@emexugwox) June 10, 2019
She doesn't understand that it's a learning process as well…all some ladies think of is heartbreaks and guys wants sex
— Pedie (@orjipedro2k3) June 11, 2019
Well it's not totally unnecessary. Dating teaches you alot about life, human behaviour, interaction etc. With enough experience from dating you could then choose a suitable partner
— Scarlet Lord (@Kotal_kahnnn) June 9, 2019
https://twitter.com/Urchilla/status/1137847691709427715
https://twitter.com/Ocean__ique/status/1138030108718063616
Flesh and blood didnt reveal this to u. This sense filled tweet just earned you a follow… KFB.
— Madame Pel (@pelumialabi_) June 10, 2019
You absolutely right, dating is unnecessary if marriage is not in sight. Platonic/friendship relationship can teach you all you need to know about someone
— goldenpeaches (@EricIdele) June 10, 2019
Many people do not know that the essence of a relationship is MARRIAGE!
— OLAMI (@hackeim) June 10, 2019
😂 it's the title of a book. Read it back then when I was under pressure to get into it. Made me realize it isn't worth it after all.
— J. Mari (@gee_marison) June 10, 2019
https://twitter.com/james_yaw_jnr/status/1138326960629800961