Woman exposes abusive husband who beat her while pregnant, locked her out after miscarriage
A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to cry out over the severe abuse she has suffered in her marriage, revealing that her husband frequently beats her — even during pregnancy — and once locked her outside after she had a miscarriage.
She shared her emotional story in a post on her TikTok page, where she opened up about her experience and shed light on the struggles of many women trapped in abusive marriages.
In her post, she explained why some women find it easier to leave such relationships, while others remain stuck due to fear, financial dependence, or concern for their children.
Sadly, she noted that some women never make it out alive.
She wrote:Â
“A lot of women are in abusive marriages, and the reason they are still there is because of their kids, not knowing where to go, and wondering how they will care for their children.”
“If you’re a woman going through abuse, I understand — it’s not easy. It took me 4 years to realize that you can never change an abuser. No matter how much you try, it’s impossible.”
“Instead, they keep destroying you. Some women manage to leave in their 20s, some never leave, and some aren’t lucky enough to leave alive. Many women are victims just like me, and when children are involved, leaving becomes even harder.”
“As for me, I am leaving. People will say I’m leaving because of another man, but that’s not true. They’re also threatening to take my children from me if I leave, but I have to save myself.”
In response to a comment under her post, she further revealed the horrors she endured: “A man that beats me when I’m pregnant? A man that hits a new mom? A man that locks his wife out after a miscarriage? God will judge you.”
As her heartbreaking story circulated online, concerned individuals flooded the comment section to share their thoughts, offer words of encouragement, and call for justice.
See some reactions below:Â
Modi_Olonje: “It’s not because of your Kids, it’s because you like being a victim and don wants to work.”
iamlight: “Save yourself!!! Your children will understand when they grow. Leave the kids with him and fix your life.”
ENNY: “what did you do to him, because in every reaction there must be an action.”
Ghosted: “If I am to advice you, making this video while you still in his house is wrong…. You shouldn’t let him know your next move it’s risky, if I was you I would act calm and vanish with my kids.”
Lucy J: “He also hit his child 😩😩 what a demon, you are going to leave or you have left.”
Lena Ice: “she’s picking her man over her kids no worry 😂😂😂.”
Annabel: “My friend was in abusive relationship. Gave birth to 2 kids without any dowry I asked her to leave but she didn’t listen cus of her kids ..today she’s dead and has left the kids behind.”
jaynieyech55: “When u are ready you will leave to live 🙄. For now keep making excuses 💔.”
Affordable Luxury Hair Vendor: “Madam I left at the age of 22 years old, i went back to my parents house with my two daughters. They were a year plus and two years as at that time.”
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@adajesus409 I have been a victim for 4 years ! Am speaking out now because they are threatening my life ! I will no longer keep quiet or shy away !! I Will speak out untill its over !
@adajesus409 Abusers dont ever change ðŸ˜
