Man in pain as girlfriend receives money bouquets from men on birthday

A struggling Nigerian man pleads for advice after his girlfriend flaunted substantial birthday gifts from other men, including a money bouquet on her status.

The man, who reached out anonymously to an X influencer @bigfeeztm, revealed that financial constraints prevented him from giving his girlfriend the lavish celebration she desired.

However, he was taken aback when she posted a money bouquet and multiple credit alerts from other men on her status.

Expressing his dilemma, he wrote:

“Omo, baba, today na my babe birthday and I tell her about my financial issues, but she understand. This morning, she post that money thing, and like three guys don credit her funds wey she post for status. Make I confront her?”

The post has sparked a wave of reactions from many who suggested that she may be in a relationship with other men while others argued it might be a platonic friendship.

@KushDeniyi wrote in reaction, “Make he know that it’s already over. Just keep her for konji time. Keep all the evidence 🧾 when it’s time to strike back you will use the evidence counter her. Baba life no hard use your head before them go help you use it.”

Another user @dlazygirl said: “Let’s be honest. Some men are so insecure and it’s disgusting!! But I don’t think that’s the case here…I think the guy’s pain is the way he found out. Many people don’t understand a relationship requires trust and a lottttt of compromise.

It’s your birthday, receive gifts, that’s absolutely normal, but your man shouldn’t be finding out about such gifts on your status tho.”