30-year-old woman laments being single, says men she loves aren’t ready to settle
A 30-year-old Nigerian woman has shared her frustration over being single, expressing that the men she’s interested in are not ready to settle down.
In a TikTok video gaining traction, she opens up about her relationship experiences with men.
She said: “I’m 30, does it mean that all my life, I’ve not met one perfect guy that I love and want to settle down with. I’m even willing to start from scratch, but the person that you love love, they’re not ready.”
When asked to clarify, she explained, “They’re not ready to settle. It’s not that I haven’t received marriage proposals—I have, but they’re always from the wrong people.”
Her comments have sparked reactions on social media, with many users taking to the comments section to share their thoughts as the video continues to trend online.
See some reactions below:
ezenikaezeumeifed: “and those people you love to settle down with, are rich guys, the wrong ones are poor people, dey play..”
Udokamma16 💡🪙💎💖⭐: “The right people na the ones that have money, then the wrong people na the ones wey no get money, madam those people you dey put mind on no value to wife you, they no dey reason you.”
Kizito D Keke Driver: “the wrong people she meant are poor guys. she needs rich guys… na that money she wants u to come with.”
napoleon: “😆😆😆😆This lady way they post good things o guys let’s propose come i propose.”
king James: “some of us are ready but just that the country is hard,,,mostly when you can provide the woman needs thats it.”
user2994173081880: “God knows the best the man you call wrong might be the right man for you.”
user7618611560757: “time wea you no rich 30 some are ready to marry you by den you are not ready.”
babaseun_handsome: “Man have the power for commitment woman have the power to who they want to sleep with.”
Chidiebere Nwaturuocha: “Wetin you use your 20s do? No quality man who has built up himself marries older women. The same way younger beautiful women desire/prefer older men. All I see here is character deformations from her.”
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