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Sonia Ogbonna Took to Instagram to share a screenshot of a lady who reached out for help and the advice she got.

Sonia who is not in support of the advice wrote,

“Dear FELLOW women.
You need to STOP teaching your daughters that GETTING MARRIED AND “KEEPING A MAN” is an ultimate PURPOSE of a woman’s existence. That is the reason why some ladies suffer so badly in their homes because they think that everything is better thenloosing” a man. Stop teaching your daughters that they exist only to sacrifice,stomach and tolerate everything and anything man does.STOP MAKING ME ANGRY,please. TEACH THEM TO KNOW THEIR WORTH AND TO LOVE THEMSELVES FIRST,BEFORE YOU TEACH THEM HOW TO COOK,CLEAN AND “SERVE” THEIR FUTURE HUSBAND WELL. (This post refers to Nigerians for some reason but I for sure know it applies to half of this world where women suffer in their homes and where they are so afraid of being judged if they choose to leave ).I AM MY SISTERS KEEPER. I LOVE ME ALL MY WOMEN!! #SoniaOgbonna”

Dear FELLOW women. You need to STOP teaching your daughters that GETTING MARRIED AND “KEEPING A MAN” is an ultimate PURPOSE of a woman’s existence. That is the reason why some ladies suffer so badly in their homes because they think that everything is better then “loosing” a man. Stop teaching your daughters that they exist only to sacrifice,stomach and tolerate everything and anything man does.STOP MAKING ME ANGRY,please. TEACH THEM TO KNOW THEIR WORTH AND TO LOVE THEMSELVES FIRST,BEFORE YOU TEACH THEM HOW TO COOK,CLEAN AND “SERVE” THEIR FUTURE HUSBAND WELL. (This post refers to Nigerians for some reason but I for sure know it applies to half of this world where women suffer in their homes and where they are so afraid of being judged if they choose to leave ).I AM MY SISTERS KEEPER. I LOVE ME ALL MY WOMEN!! #SoniaOgbonna

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66 COMMENTS

  1. Exactly. Even though getting married is good, but thats not the only achievement of a Lady because some people are seeing marriage as a poverty alleviation programme

    • You’re the crazy one…. The only purpose for your future daughter’s existence is to get married

    • i can tell 4rom ur written speech dat ur an irresponsible,uncivilized human being 4 calling someone’s daughter a crazy bitch. go back & hve ur teacher install some sense into ur rotten head.if de purpose of our existence is marriage den dat of urs is 4 wat?go and hve a brain checkup bcos i tink u hve a very big mental problem or u should even b taken 2 a mental assylum……kiss ur buttocks,if u can’t den no dat everything i’m saying here is correct.

    • Rebbeca Akaka …i think you have done very well with this essay, is the person in question feeding you with remainant???

    • Or u’re bictch also??? as long as am not talking to your family you can furrkk out or better still die hard….#Disrespectful lad I am•••

    • i wud ignore ur stupid reply &give u a little tit-bit on how stupid u r >or let me forget bcos ur stupidness is byond human mentality. ur so dirty.n a sense dat u dnt even hve dat sense of decency 2 how dirty de word ‘bitch’ is.do u no de meaning of dat word or ur jst saying 4 saying sake.gosh ur so disgusting! she said something without insulting anyone yet u cudnt comment without insulting her.i no she wont reply dats y i am doing it 4 her.go back & learn manners.

  2. Yes..I hate it when ever pple tell me all what m doin is for marriage,why cant I do things for myself and nor for a man

  3. Thank you for that. God created us for many purposes not only for marriage. God doesn’t judge you when u die whether u r married or not. So it is not purpose of our existence.

  4. Yea baby…..I love dat….dahz kinda true oh….but we should jez leave dem….dey should teach us small

  5. Yeah, right. In America, there are a lot of achievement and breakthrough that ladies have brought about. The existence of a woman is not just to get married & have kids. They have potentials to achieve more.

  6. Yeah, right. In America, there are a lot of achievement and breakthrough that ladies have brought about. The existence of a woman is not just to get married & have kids. They have potentials to achieve more.

    • 4 me i see it as a taboo 4 a woman 2 marry u.every man wants a woman dat is an asset and not a liability.sha if dats wat u want an illiterate woman is on de way 4 u bcos no literate,no graduate will lyk 2 have a baldadash 4 a husband.

    • @rebecca I wnt to rain a lot of curse on u bt I won’t. how I live my life ain’t ur fucking business. na ur papa dey feed me. u waste of sperm

    • hahahahahahahaha i laugh n japan.gosh i jst can’t stop laughing especially wen someone is lamenting & claim 2 b talking.

  7. But the bible says go ye into the world subdue,multiply & replenish the earth this is one of the major purpose 4 which we ar being created

    • yeah.intelligent person.since de bible said go yeah into de world and reproduce.even if ur eating once in a day don’t stop reproducing ooo.i jst pray dat ur manhood shouldn’t cut off.

  8. But the bible says go ye into the world subdue,multiply & replenish the earth this is one of the major purpose 4 which we ar being created

  9. How many Nigerian women have the potentials to do what their foreign counterparts does? For example, female Politicians are making wave in foreign countries like Germany&Liberia. But in Nigeria appointing a woman as just a petroleum minister is suicidal. That’s my own point of view,so don’t get it twisted.

  10. How many Nigerian women have the potentials to do what their foreign counterparts does? For example, female Politicians are making wave in foreign countries like Germany&Liberia. But in Nigeria appointing a woman as just a petroleum minister is suicidal. That’s my own point of view,so don’t get it twisted.

  11. That question got the best answer there. I mean she said, ” am dead, shud i leave him?” U and i know dt if one is dead, they leave behind everything not just the man that forced Izal down their throat. And again We must love our Creator first b4 ourselves.

  12. i can tell 4rom ur written speech dat ur an irresponsible,uncivilized human being 4 calling someone’s daughter a crazy bitch. go back & hve ur teacher install some sense into ur rotten head.if de purpose of our existence is marriage den dat of urs is 4 wat?go and hve a brain checkup bcos i tink u hve a very big mental problem or u should even b taken 2 a mental assylum……kiss ur buttocks,if u can’t den no dat everything i’m saying here is correct.

  13. gistreel.com I think u guys should find sometin to do with people who insults others here. I mean like u shouldn’t tolerate such stuff. look up to my comments here and see what Rebecca akaka jst said. if I had my way, I would hack her account, hack her life too

    • den wats stoping u. y lamenting.hahahahaha.how will u see it.wen other pple’s wife are doctors,lawyers&dey also xplore de potentials God gave 2 them, then urs is a housewife& blablablablabla.if dat’s ur opinion then there is no point sending ur female child (future) 2 skul.jst make sure she learns hw 2 cook&do other chores .i no u won’t b able 2 that. u would want her 2 go 2 skul.dat’s wat i’m trying 2 say; treat pple de way u would want 2 b treated.if u can’t do it 2 ur daughter den dnt do it 2 another person’s child .it nt my business fine bt i lyk correcting pple.dnt want u 2 stay n ur ignorance…..hapy 2017. take away de pride&accept corrections.dat’s wat life is all about.

    • u knw what. that’s nt the way to correct someone. like u got beef wit me before. I mean ur words sound harsh. am the type of guy who listen bt talk less

    • let assume I had everytin I wnt. money ain’t a problem. have got like 3 kids and u still expect a house girl to take care of the house and kids?. I see no reason why she should work. as a young guy I cnt date a girl who is illiterate or jobless. u get my point

    • yeah! i will take de lead, . sory if i offended u.is just dat i hate oppression, maltreatment,inequality especially towards women&de rest. bt u no wat u’re very funny,u were actually reporting me to de police.u were jst like a kid reporting 2 mum after someone might hve hurt himher.4rom wat ur jst saying u sound very different unlike ur first comment which was somehow insulting 2 women.bcareful.words cud implicate someone.it cud make u behave lyk someone u hve neva been b4.

  14. Thank God that idea was not broken in pieces african-style on this post. Sincerely it has become tiring thing seeing how women have been zombie trained (and act it out) that they are only useful in a marriage as a sex and work machine, even if they are poorly treated there. Some women even fight each other, bicker, envy and commit all kinds of offences for the same reason. Until women are seen as critical contributors to the growth of any society, that society continues to fall apart. Abuses will multiply. Everybody will pay the price, including the youths. Is it not the mothers that would train the children? So how can a weak minded mother do that effectively? Look around, this is one of the reasons for poverty and corruption in many 3rd world nations on the earth. A tradition encouraging suppression of women is just multiplying suffering in that society. Period

  15. Rebbeca Akaka …i think you have done very well with this essay, is the person in question feeding you with remainant???

  16. Or u’re bictch also??? as long as am not talking to your family you can furrkk out or better still die hard….#Disrespectful lad I am•••

  17. i wud ignore ur stupid reply &give u a little tit-bit on how stupid u r >or let me forget bcos ur stupidness is byond human mentality. ur so dirty.n a sense dat u dnt even hve dat sense of decency 2 how dirty de word ‘bitch’ is.do u no de meaning of dat word or ur jst saying 4 saying sake.gosh ur so disgusting! she said something without insulting anyone yet u cudnt comment without insulting her.i no she wont reply dats y i am doing it 4 her.go back & learn manners.

  18. She as av a point, In those days parent gives their daughter out for marriage but this 21th lady gives themselves out for free…. Our mother have dignity n loyalty but ladies of day re pride dats y we guys don’t respect them…

  19. God created us for many purposes not only for marriage. God doesn’t judge you when u die whether u r married or not. So it is not purpose of our existence.

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