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I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore.

I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak Attention and premature expulsion too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said “are you now saying im not a man again”

I said “‘no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we’ve had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals.

I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesn’t keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.

I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.


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  1. Maybe u ain’t attractive enough, trust me if U package urself properly Ehn….. Thunder must strike 😉

  2. First of all IGWE must hear this… My own view for the matter na say..Why?.Yes!.Why my sister?..Why are you not happy and Put the devil to big shame?…He is first of all DEMANDING sex from you isn’t?..Please give God thanks HE IS ASKING AND REQUESTING for it not YOU BEGGING for it!!…Now YOU HAVE AN ISSUE OF REASON for the SEX?..Simple thing to do is to take advantage of “common sense” which is CONTRACEPTIVE PILLS!” through which you can take control of when you want to have a baby and at the SAME TIME YOU ARE MAXIMIZING the unique right of enjoying good sex as entitled to you in your marriage..HE WANTS SEX BECAUSE HE WANT KIDS..then YOU USE PILLS BECAUSE YOU WANT CONSTANT SEX!!..simple… *BUT AM SURE YOU KNOW THIS IS A SHORT-CUT to the problem.. The easiest and lasting solution is to sit your man down and have a heart to heart discussion on WHY HE IS PUTTING YOU TO UNNECESSARY SUFFERING because of his INSENSITIVE ATTITUDES and am sure a sane man will QUICKLY AMEND HIS WAYS on hearing your honest thoughts on the issue!!.. *Oya pay me the fee for this advise!!

  3. First of all IGWE must hear this… My own view for the matter na say..Why?.Yes!.Why my sister?..Why are you not happy and let us Put the devil to big shame?…He is first of all DEMANDING sex from you isn’t?..Please give God thanks HE IS ASKING AND REQUESTING for it not YOU BEGGING for it!!…Now YOU HAVE AN ISSUE OF REASON for the SEX?..Simple thing to do is to take advantage of “common sense” which is CONTRACEPTIVE PILLS!” through which you can take control of when you want to have a baby and at the SAME TIME YOU ARE MAXIMIZING the unique right of enjoying good sex as entitled to you in your marriage..HE WANTS SEX BECAUSE HE WANT KIDS..then YOU USE PILLS BECAUSE YOU WANT CONSTANT SEX!!..simple… *BUT AM SURE YOU KNOW THIS IS A SHORT-CUT to the problem.. The easiest and lasting solution is to sit your man down and have a heart to heart discussion on WHY HE IS PUTTING YOU TO UNNECESSARY SUFFERING because of his INSENSITIVE ATTITUDES and am sure a sane man will QUICKLY AMEND HIS WAYS on hearing your honest thoughts on the issue!!.. *Oya pay me the fee for this advise!!

  4. Dear will I say you didn’t allow your mother to press you hot water very well and now your bod is no longer tight for him to enjoy or find out from him yourself … All the best

  5. the interval between ur first and second child must at least be 2yrs. so u’re tellin me he doesn’t bang during free period. he must have a lot of side chick.

  6. My dear u are not married u are just a baby making machine hope u didnt sign anything with out reading it becauce u might have signed a contract by mistake

  7. My sister next time when he will wants a baby go for family planning, he will fail the whole year

  8. If he doesnt have sex with u when u need it , dnt give it to him also when he needs too . Dnt be a fool

    • u said b4 dat u doesn’t buy my idea but this ur idea of denying the man sex when next he want her to make a baby for him is the best abi?

    • Chaie see her see her father’s compound ooo, don’t miss lead her every man have his own resonance of marrying a woman, maybe de reason is for her to born for he, ur way isn’t another person way

  9. My dear, I’ve gone through what you said, am sure it’s a health issue, just pray to God to convince him so that he will accept to see a doctor for a solution.

  10. Marriage is not about sex.you have not complained that he doesn’t care about you anymore or that he beats you.some people are not just sex freaks.occupy yourself with raising your kids,career,spirituality etc.I am speaking from experience.in no time you wouldn’t even be thinking about sex.peace

    • Can you take such??? Your husband won’t touch you for like 2yrs and comes to you when he want to hv another baby… Common, we are human and blood run through our veins…sex is also part of marriage biko

  11. Hmm, marriage isn’t an easy task… Everyone with different issue well still learning…

  12. i tink, he’s cheating on u.bcos a man, due 2 his nature can’t stay 4 one week without having sex.

  13. That is very bad,you are not a baby making machine,married men should always put their wife in the front row of their life, they Should not think of them selves alone.

  14. On a funny note…Get a sex toy and put it on the bed where he can see it…tell him that is ur new sex play thing till he is ready for baby making sex which is d only time he has interest in having sex with u….his reaction should tell u what to do…..on a serious note talk to him and tell him u are signing up for a sex therapist group….he can come along or u will go alone…

  15. If your husband is not having affairs with other ladies, sex is not food neither word of God, it’s very hard to meet that type of your husband this days. I love his principle.if you embrace God, you surely find happiness.

  16. Can you take such??? Your husband won’t touch you for like 2yrs and comes to you when he want to hv another baby… Common, we are human and blood run through our veins…sex is also part of marriage biko

  17. That’s unfair of him, so now he no longer love u but turn u to baby factory, u need to walk away from that marriage b4 it’s late

  18. Chill,if he starts coming 2 u everyday, d story will be dat ur not a sex machine ,now dt he cums only wen he wants babies is now tagged ur not a baby making machine,listen d earlier every1 sinks it in,dt dia is no perfect marriage d beta 4 everybdy,every marriage has its corma,n dis is ur own corma dear,ur husband is not just a sex freak n dts it ,tank God u dint say he dsnt cum 2 u at all,so weda he cums 2 u wen he wants a baby or not,everytin is still sex..

  19. Aya such a pithy be like say he don’t see u as child machine not wife. Am seriously weeping on ur behalf

  20. hmmm this hard to believe a current man no fit wait for 2yrs before making sex with his wife.may he is in serect society it many be his own offering. so keep praying or one day he will offer you too.

    • That’s your believe, must he be having sex with her always, is sex a food or money? Mind de way u talk, your way of life is not another person way of life

  21. My dear sex is also part of marriage ,stay for two years without having sex with my husband I be his mother…… That why some many marriages crash I no fit o

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